13Jul

Good morning, gentlemen!

As temperatures swelter, and the humidity makes you sweat within the walls of your own house, remaining fashion conscious still remains a must. There are multiple theories about how to wear loafers in the summer time, and I am here to calm all your worries. After reading from multiple sources, as well as my own knowledge as a southern gal, I have some answers for ya. So listen up!

Here in the South, men and boys alike, should own a nice pari of loafers. Horse-bit tend to carry a tad bit more class, but any loafer will do. While it may be “just a shoe,” there are certain ways that men should wear them…. Read below!

1. Loafers should be worn without  socks when wearing khakis. This look is classic in the South, especially among young business men, politicians, affluent families, and fraternity men.

2. Loafers without socks is more for casual occasions. The look can also be sported with jeans, as well as more sport-oriented pants (golf, etc.)

3. If wearing loafers for a more formal events, dress them up with a tan or brown sock.

4. Worried about your feet smelling? While socks so absorb moisture, there are foot powders that are just as, if not more effective to reduce wetness and odor. Just pour a little bit into each loafer before you leave, and kiss your worries goodbye!

5. Loafers are also seen sockless when sailing or at the beach. Out for a casual outing, look your best, but feel your best! Being comfortable always makes a man stand up a little taller.

While the temperatures might be dreadful, don’t let your “look” wilt.  A good southern man not only knows how to handle the heat, but he can look his best through it all.

pransey_sig_2

Good morning, gentlemen! As temperatures swelter, and the humidity makes you sweat within the walls of your own house, remaining fashion conscious still remains a must. There are multiple theories about how to wear loafers in the summer time, and I am here to calm all your worries. After reading from multiple sources, as well as my own knowledge as a southern gal, I have some answers for ya. So listen up! Here in the South, men and boys alike, should own a nice pari of loafers. Horse-bit tend to carry a tad bit more class, but any loafer will do. While it may be “just a shoe,” there are certain ways that men should wear them…. Read below! 1. Loafers should be worn without  socks when wearing khakis. This look is classic in the South, especially among young business men, politicians, affluent families, and fraternity men. 2. Loafers without socks is more for casual occasions. The look can also be sported with jeans, as well as more sport-oriented pants (golf, etc.) 3. If wearing loafers for a more formal events, dress them up with a tan or brown sock. 4. Worried about your feet smelling? While socks so absorb moisture, there are foot powders that are just as, if not more effective to reduce wetness and odor. Just pour a little bit into each loafer before you leave, and kiss your worries goodbye! 5. Loafers are also seen sockless when sailing or at the beach. Out for a casual outing, look your best, but feel your best! Being comfortable always makes a man stand up a little taller. While the temperatures might be dreadful, don’t let your “look” wilt.  A good southern man not only knows how to handle the heat, but he can look his best through it all. pransey_sig_2

05Jul

Gentlemen. In the midst of trying to figure out all the ins- and- outs of a woman’s brain, there are certain things that every man should know. Aside from chocolate, girl’s nights, spending money, and talking about our feelings, a simple way to bring us joy comes in the simplest of ways- a nice bouquet of flowers. Now, before you go off an buy a $5.99 arrangement from Kroger, there are a few things you should know about the actual flower you are purchasing. - Gerberas are from the sunny lowlands of South Africa, and instil happiness. They contain a chemical compound called coumarin, which means they smell like freshly mown lawns. - When simplicity is needed, lilies are the ideal flower, and they are associated with spiritual and symbolic occasions. - Orchids are flowers which symbolise beauty and refinement. Orchids are a versatile flower that last a long time, and are ideal for birthdays and as thank you presents. - Roses are the ultimate romantic flower. According to a French saying from la republique, white roses are for love, red roses are for passion, and yellow roses are for friendship. For happiness, give pink roses, which represent grace, gentleness and gratitude, and for love at first sight, give lilac roses. - For a great well soon bouquet, use light, pastel flowers. I will say that at the end of the day, it is the thought that counts. Women take to heart simple things, so don’t discount the idea of bringing home a simple bouquet. Us southern women were raised among wild flowers, so act accordingly…. Until next time! pransey_sig_2
Gentlemen. In the midst of trying to figure out all the ins- and- outs of a woman’s brain, there are certain things that every man should know. Aside from chocolate, girl’s nights, spending money, and talking about our feelings, a simple way to bring us joy comes in the simplest of ways- a nice bouquet of flowers. Now, before you go off an buy a $5.99 arrangement from Kroger, there are a few things you should know about the actual flower you are purchasing. - Gerberas are from the sunny lowlands of South Africa, and instil happiness. They contain a chemical compound called coumarin, which means they smell like freshly mown lawns. - When simplicity is needed, lilies are the ideal flower, and they are associated with spiritual and symbolic occasions. - Orchids are flowers which symbolise beauty and refinement. Orchids are a versatile flower that last a long time, and are ideal for birthdays and as thank you presents. - Roses are the ultimate romantic flower. According to a French saying from la republique, white roses are for love, red roses are for passion, and yellow roses are for friendship. For happiness, give pink roses, which represent grace, gentleness and gratitude, and for love at first sight, give lilac roses. - For a great well soon bouquet, use light, pastel flowers. I will say that at the end of the day, it is the thought that counts. Women take to heart simple things, so don’t discount the idea of bringing home a simple bouquet. Us southern women were raised among wild flowers, so act accordingly…. Until next time! pransey_sig_2

29Jun

Gentlemen. Since the beginning of Southern times, pocket squares have helped the every day sport coat look sophisticated and classy. For dinners, weddings, or outings, whether a stark white design or a pink gingham, the pocket square is a look that can never go out of style, yet it isn’t seen enough. The following are a few ways to style a pocket square, giving your outfit a fun, timeless appeal.

1.) The clean edge

This is probably the most basic (and also cleanest) way to display your pocket square. Fold it in thirds, and then in half, and place in your pocket, clean edge up.

If you’re trying to keep it simple but still stand out, try this with a tux or a dark suit and a white pocket square. Or you can try something like this combo in the photo, with a herringbone blazer and small grid-patterned pocket square.

2.) The rolled hem

You could get a decorative red stitching on the edge of a pocket square, as well. Something like this creates a bit of visual interest and pop when you throw it in your pocket.

If you fold your pocket square like the basic clean edge in #1, just insert it in your pocket clean edge first, letting the rolled hem peek out over the pocket. When I keep a pocket square in my jacket, I often throw it in there rolled hem up.

3.) Four corners up

This is a variation on the common “three corners up” style, which might be more ubiquitous.

Fold your pocket square corner to corner, creating a triangle. Fold over again, corner to opposite corner, and then once again. Stuff in your pocket, and arrange the corners like so.

When I have a pocket square with a contrasting rolled hem, I like how the fourth peak doesn’t display any stitching. To me, that’s interesting and part of being effortless. If you’re a perfectionist, you may not like it, but that’s entirely your call.

4.) The Poofy Poof

I doubt “Poofy Poof” is what true clothiers and sartorialists would call this style, but that’s what I call it.

Gather and bunch the pocket square from the middle and it will create this mountain of fabric. Then stuff in your pocket, leaving the peak sticking out. Poof it so it looks like you’re keeping a cloud in your pocket and it’s attempting to escape.

4b.) The Inverted Poofy Poof

I think one of my favorites (and probably the most nonchalant) is the Inverted Poofy Poof. You take the peak of the mountain that formed when you gathered the pocket square from the middle, and stuff it inside your pocket first.

This leaves the edges haphazardly formed and spilling out of your pocket. If you’re more conservative, you can stuff more of it in. If you feel like showing off a bit, leave more out. It’s up to you. Effortlessness at its best!

This is the easiest method by far, and one you can have the most fun with.

Bringing it back, old school. Y’all go make it happen, now!

pransey_sig_2

Gentlemen. Since the beginning of Southern times, pocket squares have helped the every day sport coat look sophisticated and classy. For dinners, weddings, or outings, whether a stark white design or a pink gingham, the pocket square is a look that can never go out of style, yet it isn’t seen enough. The following are a few ways to style a pocket square, giving your outfit a fun, timeless appeal.

1.) The clean edge

This is probably the most basic (and also cleanest) way to display your pocket square. Fold it in thirds, and then in half, and place in your pocket, clean edge up.

If you’re trying to keep it simple but still stand out, try this with a tux or a dark suit and a white pocket square. Or you can try something like this combo in the photo, with a herringbone blazer and small grid-patterned pocket square.

2.) The rolled hem

You could get a decorative red stitching on the edge of a pocket square, as well. Something like this creates a bit of visual interest and pop when you throw it in your pocket.

If you fold your pocket square like the basic clean edge in #1, just insert it in your pocket clean edge first, letting the rolled hem peek out over the pocket. When I keep a pocket square in my jacket, I often throw it in there rolled hem up.

3.) Four corners up

This is a variation on the common “three corners up” style, which might be more ubiquitous.

Fold your pocket square corner to corner, creating a triangle. Fold over again, corner to opposite corner, and then once again. Stuff in your pocket, and arrange the corners like so.

When I have a pocket square with a contrasting rolled hem, I like how the fourth peak doesn’t display any stitching. To me, that’s interesting and part of being effortless. If you’re a perfectionist, you may not like it, but that’s entirely your call.

4.) The Poofy Poof

I doubt “Poofy Poof” is what true clothiers and sartorialists would call this style, but that’s what I call it.

Gather and bunch the pocket square from the middle and it will create this mountain of fabric. Then stuff in your pocket, leaving the peak sticking out. Poof it so it looks like you’re keeping a cloud in your pocket and it’s attempting to escape.

4b.) The Inverted Poofy Poof

I think one of my favorites (and probably the most nonchalant) is the Inverted Poofy Poof. You take the peak of the mountain that formed when you gathered the pocket square from the middle, and stuff it inside your pocket first.

This leaves the edges haphazardly formed and spilling out of your pocket. If you’re more conservative, you can stuff more of it in. If you feel like showing off a bit, leave more out. It’s up to you. Effortlessness at its best!

This is the easiest method by far, and one you can have the most fun with.

Bringing it back, old school. Y’all go make it happen, now!

pransey_sig_2

22Jun

To all you gentlemen of the South. With summer in full swing, the grass is green, the weather is warm, and that can only mean one thing- cornhole. As the staple game of a Southern tailgate, summer is the perfect time to practice and perfect your game. Now don’t fret you newbies, if you have yet to play this classic game, below are some instructions on how the game works.

The Cornhole Boards:

  • Should be placed on a flat surface 26 feet apart (front to front).
  • The cornhole board surface should be 2′ x 4′.

The Cornhole Bags:

  • There should be 8 bags, 4 bags of each color. Consisting of 2 teams.
  • Each bag should be 6 inches by 6 inches and have 1 pound of corn inserted into each cornhole bag.

Cornhole Game Play:

Two (2) person teams, or partners, shall play. Partners shall stand at opposite cornhole boxes on the same side, from the perspective of a third person, and face each other, so there is no advantage given to one team.
  • Each cornhole team shall have 4 bags of one color.
  • All 8 cornhole bags begin at one end.
  • A coin flip shall determine whitch cornhole team has honors in round one.
  • One of the partners on the team who has honors shall begin play by throwing a cornhole bag at the opposite cornhole box.
  • A cornhole player may throw from anywhere behind the front of the cornhole box they are throwing from.
  • Game continues by alternating throws between the two opponent players until all 8 cornhole bags have been thrown.
  • If a cornhole bag hits the ground then bounces up onto the board, that bag shall be taken off the playing surface.
  • The next round starts when the other cornhole player on the team, which has honors, throws their first cornhole bag.
  • The cornhole game continues until one team reaches 21 or more points.

Penalties

A penalty occurs when any of the following happens and the player who makes the foul loses a turn and the bag shall be removed if any landed on the playing surface.
  • A cornhole players foot goes past the foot foul line, termed a foot foul.
  • A player goes out of turn.

Scoring:

  • The score shall be taken after all cornhole bags have been thrown for a round.
  • Points shall be given as follows.
    • 3 points for a cornhole bag that goes through the hole.
    • 1 point for a cornhole bag that is on the playing surface.
    • 1 point for a cornhole bag that is hanging into the hole.
    • 1 point for a cornhole bag that is hanging off the edge but not touching the ground.
    • 0 points for a cornhole bag that is on the playing surface, but also touching the ground.
    • 0 points for a cornhole bag that is hanging off the front edge and is resting on a cornhole bag that is on the ground (unless the cornhole bag on the ground can be removed without making the hanging bag fall to the ground, then one point is given).
  • The cornhole team with the highest round score, adds the difference of the two scores to their game score.
  • The cornhole team who wins the round is given honors to throw first in the next round.
  • If both cornhole teams have the same round score then the game score stays the same and honors stays with the team who had it the previous round.
Good luck! pransey_sig_2
To all you gentlemen of the South. With summer in full swing, the grass is green, the weather is warm, and that can only mean one thing- cornhole. As the staple game of a Southern tailgate, summer is the perfect time to practice and perfect your game. Now don’t fret you newbies, if you have yet to play this classic game, below are some instructions on how the game works.

The Cornhole Boards:

  • Should be placed on a flat surface 26 feet apart (front to front).
  • The cornhole board surface should be 2′ x 4′.

The Cornhole Bags:

  • There should be 8 bags, 4 bags of each color. Consisting of 2 teams.
  • Each bag should be 6 inches by 6 inches and have 1 pound of corn inserted into each cornhole bag.

Cornhole Game Play:

Two (2) person teams, or partners, shall play. Partners shall stand at opposite cornhole boxes on the same side, from the perspective of a third person, and face each other, so there is no advantage given to one team.
  • Each cornhole team shall have 4 bags of one color.
  • All 8 cornhole bags begin at one end.
  • A coin flip shall determine whitch cornhole team has honors in round one.
  • One of the partners on the team who has honors shall begin play by throwing a cornhole bag at the opposite cornhole box.
  • A cornhole player may throw from anywhere behind the front of the cornhole box they are throwing from.
  • Game continues by alternating throws between the two opponent players until all 8 cornhole bags have been thrown.
  • If a cornhole bag hits the ground then bounces up onto the board, that bag shall be taken off the playing surface.
  • The next round starts when the other cornhole player on the team, which has honors, throws their first cornhole bag.
  • The cornhole game continues until one team reaches 21 or more points.

Penalties

A penalty occurs when any of the following happens and the player who makes the foul loses a turn and the bag shall be removed if any landed on the playing surface.
  • A cornhole players foot goes past the foot foul line, termed a foot foul.
  • A player goes out of turn.

Scoring:

  • The score shall be taken after all cornhole bags have been thrown for a round.
  • Points shall be given as follows.
    • 3 points for a cornhole bag that goes through the hole.
    • 1 point for a cornhole bag that is on the playing surface.
    • 1 point for a cornhole bag that is hanging into the hole.
    • 1 point for a cornhole bag that is hanging off the edge but not touching the ground.
    • 0 points for a cornhole bag that is on the playing surface, but also touching the ground.
    • 0 points for a cornhole bag that is hanging off the front edge and is resting on a cornhole bag that is on the ground (unless the cornhole bag on the ground can be removed without making the hanging bag fall to the ground, then one point is given).
  • The cornhole team with the highest round score, adds the difference of the two scores to their game score.
  • The cornhole team who wins the round is given honors to throw first in the next round.
  • If both cornhole teams have the same round score then the game score stays the same and honors stays with the team who had it the previous round.
Good luck! pransey_sig_2

16Jun

Gentlemen. Yes, for those who are unaware, it is wedding season, and that means it’s time for the few and far between to perform those memorable toasts. While it may be funny and harmless for the bride and groom, there is also an etiquette surrounding the toast. Want to get laughs from the crowd and still get a hug from the groom after? Follow the simple steps below:

Rule #1: Be brief It’s best to stay under two or three minutes.

Rule #2: Rehearse Sometimes even spontaneity requires a little forethought. Practice out loud in the mirror a few times.

Rule #3: Get (and keep) the Crowd’s Attention Avoid tapping your glass; simply stand and speak loudly and clearly.

Receiving a Wedding Toast Rule #4: Don’t Drink To Yourself Avoid raising your glass, and remain seated when the toast is offered to you.

Wedding Toast Rules for Guests Rule #5: Let the Host Toast First Champagne glasses on the table indicate toasts will be made, usually with the dessert course.

Rule #6: Never Refuse to Participate If you’re a nondrinker, it is courteous to raise an empty glass, rather than none at all. If you’re nervous about public speaking, have a couple of short toasts committed to memory in case you’re unexpectedly called upon.

Wedding Toast Rules for Hosts Rule #7: Inform Guests if You Would Like Them to Toast If you’re hosting a formal party or wedding and would like for certain guests to toast the honorees, it’s polite to call them a week before the party to let them know.

Have fun, and may the “best man” win.

pransey_sig_2

Gentlemen. Yes, for those who are unaware, it is wedding season, and that means it’s time for the few and far between to perform those memorable toasts. While it may be funny and harmless for the bride and groom, there is also an etiquette surrounding the toast. Want to get laughs from the crowd and still get a hug from the groom after? Follow the simple steps below:

Rule #1: Be brief It’s best to stay under two or three minutes.

Rule #2: Rehearse Sometimes even spontaneity requires a little forethought. Practice out loud in the mirror a few times.

Rule #3: Get (and keep) the Crowd’s Attention Avoid tapping your glass; simply stand and speak loudly and clearly.

Receiving a Wedding Toast Rule #4: Don’t Drink To Yourself Avoid raising your glass, and remain seated when the toast is offered to you.

Wedding Toast Rules for Guests Rule #5: Let the Host Toast First Champagne glasses on the table indicate toasts will be made, usually with the dessert course.

Rule #6: Never Refuse to Participate If you’re a nondrinker, it is courteous to raise an empty glass, rather than none at all. If you’re nervous about public speaking, have a couple of short toasts committed to memory in case you’re unexpectedly called upon.

Wedding Toast Rules for Hosts Rule #7: Inform Guests if You Would Like Them to Toast If you’re hosting a formal party or wedding and would like for certain guests to toast the honorees, it’s polite to call them a week before the party to let them know.

Have fun, and may the “best man” win.

pransey_sig_2

13Jun

To all you fine gentlemen out there. Amongst the many dances that originated in the South, knowing how to Shag is a must, especially if you’re among the beautiful palms of Charleston, the quaint town of Charlotte, or along the waters of the East Coast. Below are some simple instructions, with a youtube link to follow. Don’t be discouraged, it is a quick paced dance, but you will swoon and sway any sweet little girl with these moves. 1. The basic step is counted, “one-and-two” “three-and-four” “five-six. Each word corresponds with a step (8 words, 8 steps). 2. You never move the same foot twice in a row. For in depth steps, click on this link: http://www.goshagging.com/steps.pdf Here’s the Youtube video:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdadn1iT_58 Now y’all go out and practice now. Good luck! pransey_sig_2
To all you fine gentlemen out there. Amongst the many dances that originated in the South, knowing how to Shag is a must, especially if you’re among the beautiful palms of Charleston, the quaint town of Charlotte, or along the waters of the East Coast. Below are some simple instructions, with a youtube link to follow. Don’t be discouraged, it is a quick paced dance, but you will swoon and sway any sweet little girl with these moves. 1. The basic step is counted, “one-and-two” “three-and-four” “five-six. Each word corresponds with a step (8 words, 8 steps). 2. You never move the same foot twice in a row. For in depth steps, click on this link: http://www.goshagging.com/steps.pdf Here’s the Youtube video:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdadn1iT_58 Now y’all go out and practice now. Good luck! pransey_sig_2

06Jun

To my seersucker wearing, turkey hunting, whiskey drinking southern gentleman. As y’all probably know- the South is not just a place, but it’s a way of life. It’s understanding the ways and woes of a history deeply rooted in magnolias and cigars. Here are the top ten rules of the South that every gentleman must know and act on: 1. Always be confident, never cocky. Girls will walk, bosses will turn, and young ladies’ fathers will close doors- humility speaks volumes of a young man’s character. 2. Always walk between a lady and the street. 3. Always be on time. To be safe, always shoot for 10 minutes before. 4. Always open the door for a lady. 5. Always stand when a lady leaves or approaches a table. Wait to sit down until she has sat down or until she has given permission. 6. Never, ever, under any circumstance, wear cargo shorts, pants, trousers, etc. 7. Flip- flops are for the beach or pool, only. Loafers are always a safe, casual option. 8. It’s better to be polite than always right. 9. Never wear socks with seersucker. 10. Last but certainly not least, never forget “yes/no ma’am/ sir.” Of course, there are other etiquette and social cues that serve importance in public and social settings, and don’t fret, I’ll be sure to address those later on. If you fine gents have suggestions or must have’s, please feel free to help me out. Simply Sweet, Pransey
To my seersucker wearing, turkey hunting, whiskey drinking southern gentleman. As y’all probably know- the South is not just a place, but it’s a way of life. It’s understanding the ways and woes of a history deeply rooted in magnolias and cigars. Here are the top ten rules of the South that every gentleman must know and act on: 1. Always be confident, never cocky. Girls will walk, bosses will turn, and young ladies’ fathers will close doors- humility speaks volumes of a young man’s character. 2. Always walk between a lady and the street. 3. Always be on time. To be safe, always shoot for 10 minutes before. 4. Always open the door for a lady. 5. Always stand when a lady leaves or approaches a table. Wait to sit down until she has sat down or until she has given permission. 6. Never, ever, under any circumstance, wear cargo shorts, pants, trousers, etc. 7. Flip- flops are for the beach or pool, only. Loafers are always a safe, casual option. 8. It’s better to be polite than always right. 9. Never wear socks with seersucker. 10. Last but certainly not least, never forget “yes/no ma’am/ sir.” Of course, there are other etiquette and social cues that serve importance in public and social settings, and don’t fret, I’ll be sure to address those later on. If you fine gents have suggestions or must have’s, please feel free to help me out. Simply Sweet, Pransey

01Jun

They say that a mint julep is the classic “southern belle” cocktail- and I’m here to say, it’s true! Whether you’re playing a light game of tennis at the club, playing a round on the green, or watching a derby, this drink is quintessential to a Belle’s fancy. Below are instructions are how to make the best mint julep below the Mason-Dixon Line, and it will take less than 10 minutes of your socialite life. 1. Gather 3 sprigs of fresh mint. 2. Measure 2 teaspoons of cold water. 3. Measure 1 teaspoon of granulated sugar. 4. Gather 1 cup of crushed ice. 5. Measure 2 1/2 ounces of bourbon. 6. Tear off the leaves of 2 of the mint sprigs and place them at the bottom of the tall glass 7. Add water and sugar and stir until the sugar is dissolved and the mint is bruised. 8. Fill glass with crushed ice and pour bourbon over the ice. 9. Stir and garnish with rest of mint leaves. For those non-drinkers, replace the bourbon with lemonade and/ or sweet tea and make a nice mint lemonade iced tea. For full effect, drink under a nice magnolia tree, dressed in your best, and a Southern Proper tie, of course. Simply Sweet, Pransey
They say that a mint julep is the classic “southern belle” cocktail- and I’m here to say, it’s true! Whether you’re playing a light game of tennis at the club, playing a round on the green, or watching a derby, this drink is quintessential to a Belle’s fancy. Below are instructions are how to make the best mint julep below the Mason-Dixon Line, and it will take less than 10 minutes of your socialite life. 1. Gather 3 sprigs of fresh mint. 2. Measure 2 teaspoons of cold water. 3. Measure 1 teaspoon of granulated sugar. 4. Gather 1 cup of crushed ice. 5. Measure 2 1/2 ounces of bourbon. 6. Tear off the leaves of 2 of the mint sprigs and place them at the bottom of the tall glass 7. Add water and sugar and stir until the sugar is dissolved and the mint is bruised. 8. Fill glass with crushed ice and pour bourbon over the ice. 9. Stir and garnish with rest of mint leaves. For those non-drinkers, replace the bourbon with lemonade and/ or sweet tea and make a nice mint lemonade iced tea. For full effect, drink under a nice magnolia tree, dressed in your best, and a Southern Proper tie, of course. Simply Sweet, Pransey

23May

Here in the South, verbal “thank you’s” are strongly encouraged, but it is a must-do to follow up with a little note. Whether you new graduates are struggling with numerous notes to family members, or you need to follow up after an interview, here are some tips to mastering a crucial art below the Mason-Dixon Line. 1. Always greet the giver by name. Example, “Dear Mrs. Sally.” If you know them on a personal level, feel free to use the name that y’all communicate with. Example, “Dear Becky,” or if close acquaintances, nicknames can be used, “Dear Cookie.” 2. Express your gratitude. Example, “Thank you so much for the green slippers.” Be specific, as it will show the recipient that you really do appreciate not just the gift, but THEIR gift. Also, never mention dollar amounts. If you received cash, check, etc, say, “Thank you for your generosity,” not “Thanks for the hundred bucks.” If you are thanking them for an interview, or for borrowing their, let’s say, beach house, say, “Thank you for your hospitality,” or “Thank you for taking the time out of your busy day…” 3.  Discuss the use of the gift or thought. Example, “It is getting colder, and I know that the slippers will get great use.” “Our time was quite enjoyable, and the beach was the perfect getaway.” “I appreciated hearing about your position in _____ Company, and I learned a lot about what this business has to offer.” 4. Mention the past. Allude to the future. Example, “It was great to see you at my birthday party, and I look forward to seeing you and Mr. Sally again at Thanksgiving.” 5. Show grace. Example, “Thank you again. Your (gift/ time/ generosity) was much appreciated. 6. Regards. Regards are chosen based on your relationship with the recipient. Some examples are: “Warmly,” “Sincerely,” “With love,” “All my best,” “Best Wishes,” etc. The point of a thank you note is not to prattle on and on. It is a small, yet gracious token of appreciation and simple sentiment. Make it short, sweet, and to the point. Remember to write one after any occasion. If there is “thanking” to be done, follow up with a sweet note. It will only benefit you! Simply sweet, Pransey
Here in the South, verbal “thank you’s” are strongly encouraged, but it is a must-do to follow up with a little note. Whether you new graduates are struggling with numerous notes to family members, or you need to follow up after an interview, here are some tips to mastering a crucial art below the Mason-Dixon Line. 1. Always greet the giver by name. Example, “Dear Mrs. Sally.” If you know them on a personal level, feel free to use the name that y’all communicate with. Example, “Dear Becky,” or if close acquaintances, nicknames can be used, “Dear Cookie.” 2. Express your gratitude. Example, “Thank you so much for the green slippers.” Be specific, as it will show the recipient that you really do appreciate not just the gift, but THEIR gift. Also, never mention dollar amounts. If you received cash, check, etc, say, “Thank you for your generosity,” not “Thanks for the hundred bucks.” If you are thanking them for an interview, or for borrowing their, let’s say, beach house, say, “Thank you for your hospitality,” or “Thank you for taking the time out of your busy day…” 3.  Discuss the use of the gift or thought. Example, “It is getting colder, and I know that the slippers will get great use.” “Our time was quite enjoyable, and the beach was the perfect getaway.” “I appreciated hearing about your position in _____ Company, and I learned a lot about what this business has to offer.” 4. Mention the past. Allude to the future. Example, “It was great to see you at my birthday party, and I look forward to seeing you and Mr. Sally again at Thanksgiving.” 5. Show grace. Example, “Thank you again. Your (gift/ time/ generosity) was much appreciated. 6. Regards. Regards are chosen based on your relationship with the recipient. Some examples are: “Warmly,” “Sincerely,” “With love,” “All my best,” “Best Wishes,” etc. The point of a thank you note is not to prattle on and on. It is a small, yet gracious token of appreciation and simple sentiment. Make it short, sweet, and to the point. Remember to write one after any occasion. If there is “thanking” to be done, follow up with a sweet note. It will only benefit you! Simply sweet, Pransey

18May

Gentleman of the South, this is a must read. While us women may be confusing, hard to read, or just downright crazy- we are what makes the world go ’round. You men may be the head, but we are the neck, turning the head any which way we please. Knowing how to swoon, charm, and capture our hearts will get you far in life. Learning early on how to love us right ain’t easy, but luckily, you gentleman won’t regret following these simple steps. - Be compassionate and understanding. Us women want to be able to tell our girls, “Oh, he is such a good man.” We want a man to tell us often how important we are to him, as well as showing that with his actions. We love the little things in life, so don’t ever think a kind deed is not enough. - Real simple: hold the door, and make sure you open the car door. Always. There’s never an excuse not too unless your gal really insists. Even then, fight for it. Chivalry is not dead. - Hold her hand as much as you can. This simple act doesn’t get enough credit. - It’s always better to be polite than always right. Pick your battles. Don’t always try to get the last word in. You’ll end up with a door slammed in your face, with a potential silent treatment to follow. - Give thoughtful gifts. Women love surprises! The price tag is irrelevant when entering this arena. See what she likes, what she appreciates, and go from there. Unexpected little gifts are key- it shows her that you were just thinking about her. - Flowers. Now boys, this is at the heart of simplicity. You can order online at flowers.com, or simply swing by a store. Yes gentlemen, even Kroger and Publix can provide this for you. Bouquets aren’t always necessary. If she really likes yellow roses, just getting her a single yellow rose with a nice ribbon will steal her heart. - Now listen up to this one; when you are with her, pay attention to her. I know the blackberry, iPhone days are goin’ strong, but make sure you are “here” when she’s around. There’s nothing more distasteful than ignoring your woman. - Be polite and complimentary. Always say “thank you,” “please,” “i’m sorry,” and “I promise.” Use sweet words with her. Your mama should have taught you this well. If not, work off of it. “Sweetheart, darlin’, girl” work fine. Rest assured, she’s gonna love it. At all costs, avoid “dude.” Unless you’re following that statement with a slap on the backside and a cold beer, don’t go there. - Be a good communicator. Danger words, “fine,” “whatever,” etc. Be honest and speak your mind, with a filter please. Make sure she knows where you stand, how you’re feeling, what’s going on. As much as you boys think we are nuts, men have their moments too. Don’t make her play a guessing game. - Make an effort to get to know her family and friends. Go out of your way to impress them. Women care a lot about what people close to them think. If her friends and family aren’t impressed, then frankly, give her two weeks until it’s over. - Compliment her, always. - Avoid jealousy at all costs. If your woman says she loves you and is faithful, trust her. Yes, women need to get better at this too. Trust makes the world go around, and literally y’all, ain’t nothing worse than a crazy boyfriend. - Last but certainly not least, if y’all have reached this point in a relationship, say the three words people are scared to death to say. “I love you” says it all. If you can’t muster those words, use Blake Shelton’s “Honeybee” lyrics to help guide you. If she’s a born and bred Southern girl, she’ll love that just as much. Alright gentlemen, go forth and conquer. Good luck! Simply Sweet, Pransey
Gentleman of the South, this is a must read. While us women may be confusing, hard to read, or just downright crazy- we are what makes the world go ’round. You men may be the head, but we are the neck, turning the head any which way we please. Knowing how to swoon, charm, and capture our hearts will get you far in life. Learning early on how to love us right ain’t easy, but luckily, you gentleman won’t regret following these simple steps. - Be compassionate and understanding. Us women want to be able to tell our girls, “Oh, he is such a good man.” We want a man to tell us often how important we are to him, as well as showing that with his actions. We love the little things in life, so don’t ever think a kind deed is not enough. - Real simple: hold the door, and make sure you open the car door. Always. There’s never an excuse not too unless your gal really insists. Even then, fight for it. Chivalry is not dead. - Hold her hand as much as you can. This simple act doesn’t get enough credit. - It’s always better to be polite than always right. Pick your battles. Don’t always try to get the last word in. You’ll end up with a door slammed in your face, with a potential silent treatment to follow. - Give thoughtful gifts. Women love surprises! The price tag is irrelevant when entering this arena. See what she likes, what she appreciates, and go from there. Unexpected little gifts are key- it shows her that you were just thinking about her. - Flowers. Now boys, this is at the heart of simplicity. You can order online at flowers.com, or simply swing by a store. Yes gentlemen, even Kroger and Publix can provide this for you. Bouquets aren’t always necessary. If she really likes yellow roses, just getting her a single yellow rose with a nice ribbon will steal her heart. - Now listen up to this one; when you are with her, pay attention to her. I know the blackberry, iPhone days are goin’ strong, but make sure you are “here” when she’s around. There’s nothing more distasteful than ignoring your woman. - Be polite and complimentary. Always say “thank you,” “please,” “i’m sorry,” and “I promise.” Use sweet words with her. Your mama should have taught you this well. If not, work off of it. “Sweetheart, darlin’, girl” work fine. Rest assured, she’s gonna love it. At all costs, avoid “dude.” Unless you’re following that statement with a slap on the backside and a cold beer, don’t go there. - Be a good communicator. Danger words, “fine,” “whatever,” etc. Be honest and speak your mind, with a filter please. Make sure she knows where you stand, how you’re feeling, what’s going on. As much as you boys think we are nuts, men have their moments too. Don’t make her play a guessing game. - Make an effort to get to know her family and friends. Go out of your way to impress them. Women care a lot about what people close to them think. If her friends and family aren’t impressed, then frankly, give her two weeks until it’s over. - Compliment her, always. - Avoid jealousy at all costs. If your woman says she loves you and is faithful, trust her. Yes, women need to get better at this too. Trust makes the world go around, and literally y’all, ain’t nothing worse than a crazy boyfriend. - Last but certainly not least, if y’all have reached this point in a relationship, say the three words people are scared to death to say. “I love you” says it all. If you can’t muster those words, use Blake Shelton’s “Honeybee” lyrics to help guide you. If she’s a born and bred Southern girl, she’ll love that just as much. Alright gentlemen, go forth and conquer. Good luck! Simply Sweet, Pransey